How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 04:47

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
In my experience, British people are fat, ugly and arrogant. Why is it and can it be changed?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why, after a divorce, would one still want to ruin the other one’s life?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Ask yourself:
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
That's it for today.
Where's the Civil War everyone on the left said would happen?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Does not procrastinate.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Do you consider masturbating to porn cheating if you are married?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can someone in your family purposely try to destroy your reputation?
What I need from you?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Procrastinates a lot.